Hi Sam / Dear Mr Silva: formal and informal English
Choose the right register for emails and messages: greetings, closings, vocabulary and tone
What you'll be able to do
Write to colleagues, clients, institutions and friends in a tone that fits, without sounding rude or stiff.
Openings and closings
| Formal | Neutral | Informal |
|---|---|---|
| Dear Mr Silva / Dear Sir or Madam | Hello Ana / Dear Ana | Hi Sam / Hey Sam |
| Yours sincerely / Yours faithfully / Kind regards | Best wishes / Kind regards | Cheers / See you soon / Love |
Vocabulary
Formal English often uses longer, Latin-based words where informal English uses phrasal verbs or short words:
| Informal | Formal |
|---|---|
| get | receive / obtain |
| ask for | request |
| find out | discover |
| help | assist |
| sorry | we apologise / we regret |
| Can you…? | Could you…? / Would you be able to…? |
- Could you please send me the invoice by Friday?polite and formal
- Can you send me the invoice?neutral to informal
- I am writing to request further information.formal opening line
- Just wanted to check you got my message.informal
Tone
Formal writing avoids contractions (I am, not I'm), slang, and very direct commands. Informal writing uses contractions, short sentences and friendly phrases.
Common mistakes
Hey Mr Silva, I want the invoice.A formal email: Dear Mr Silva, Could you please send me the invoice?Dear Sam, I would be grateful if you could come to my party.Too formal for a friend: Hi Sam, fancy coming to my party?- Mixing registers:
Dear Sir, thanks a lot, cheers.
Practice
- Choose the best opening for a formal complaint to a company:Options: Dear Sir or Madam, · Hey there, · Hi guys,
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Dear Sir or Madam, — Dear Sir or Madam: formal, name unknown.
- Choose the most formal way to ask:Options: Would you be able to send the documents by Friday? · Send the documents by Friday. · Can you send the documents by Friday?
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Would you be able to send the documents by Friday? — Would you be able to…? is polite and formal.
- Which word is the formal version of 'get' in 'We got your letter'?Options: received · grabbed · picked
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received — Receive is formal for get a letter.
- Which closing suits an informal message to a friend?Options: See you soon, · Yours faithfully, · Yours sincerely,
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See you soon, — See you soon: informal.
- I am writing to _____ (ask for, formally) further information about the course.
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request — Request: the formal equivalent of ask for.
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