Reflexive or not: ir/irse, dormir/dormirse, llamar/llamarse
Voy / me voy, duermo / me duermo, llamo / me llamo
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In Reflexive verbs for the daily routine (levantarse) you met reflexive verbs: verbs with a pronoun (me, te, se, nos, os, se) that refers back to the subject, as in me levanto (I get up, literally "I lift myself"). With many verbs, adding the pronoun doesn't just mean "myself": it changes the meaning. These pairs are very common in everyday speech.
The key pairs
| Without se | With se |
|---|---|
| ir: to go (somewhere) | irse: to leave, go away |
| dormir: to sleep | dormirse: to fall asleep |
| llamar: to call (someone) | llamarse: to be called |
| quedar: to meet up, arrange | quedarse: to stay |
| poner: to put | ponerse: to put on (clothes) |
| acostar: to put (someone) to bed | acostarse: to go to bed |
| parecer: to seem | parecerse a: to look like |
Ir or irse
Ir needs a destination. Irse is about leaving the place where you are.
- Mañana voy a Toledo.Tomorrow I'm going to Toledo.
- Me voy, que es tarde.I'm off, it's late.
- ¿A qué hora os vais?What time are you (all) leaving?
Dormir or dormirse
- El bebé duerme diez horas.The baby sleeps for ten hours.
- Me dormí viendo la tele.I fell asleep watching TV.
Me he dormido (or me dormí) can also mean "I've overslept". Quedarse dormido is a common alternative for falling asleep.
Llamar or llamarse
- Llamo a mi abuela todos los domingos.I call my grandmother every Sunday.
- Mi perro se llama Rufo.My dog is called Rufo.
Quedar or quedarse
Quedar con alguien is the everyday Spain way to say you have arranged to meet someone.
- He quedado con Marta a las seis.I've arranged to meet Marta at six.
- Hoy me quedo en casa.Today I'm staying at home.
Ponerse and parecerse a
- Me pongo el abrigo y salgo.I put my coat on and go out.
- Mi hija se parece mucho a su padre.My daughter looks a lot like her father.
With clothes and parts of the body, use the article, not "my": me pongo el abrigo, me lavo las manos.
Where the pronoun goes
Before a conjugated verb (me voy), or attached to an infinitive (voy a irme = me voy a ir). More in Where pronouns go: before the verb, or attached.
Latin America
Se replaces os for "you all": ¿A qué hora se van? Quedar con for meeting up is typical of Spain; in many Latin American countries people more often say quedar en vernos (agree to meet) or verse con alguien.
Common mistakes
Bueno, voy.when you are leaving → Bueno, me voy.Me llamo a mi madre→ Llamo a mi madre. You call someone else: no me.Quedo en casa→ Me quedo en casa. Staying needs se.Me pongo mi chaqueta→ Me pongo la chaqueta.Me parezco mi madre→ Me parezco a mi madre. Parecerse needs a.
Practice
- Bueno, _____. ¡Hasta mañana!Options: me voy · voy · me va
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me voy — Leaving the place where you are: irse.
- Anoche _____ (yo, dormirse) en el sofá.
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me dormí — Dormirse = to fall asleep. Note the accent on dormí.
- Mi abuelo _____ ocho horas cada noche.Options: duerme · se duerme · se dormía
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duerme — Sleeping for a length of time is dormir; dormirse is the moment of falling asleep.
- ¿Cómo _____ (llamarse) tu profesora de inglés?
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se llama